“I fit into me, now! ... I love my life more, and ME more. I’m so much juicer! ... I have become the woman I hardly dared imagine I could be. I’d learned to be the person I’d wished I’d meet.... I am militantly and maternally on My Own Side. How kind to myself I have become, what a wonderful and tender wife I am—To Myself! I live by the truth that “No” is a complete sentence. I rest as a spiritual act! If I live to be 80 ... I think [I’ll] ... wish ... I had swum more unashamedly, made more mistakes ... rested.... And I know the truth – that I am not going to live forever, and this has set me FREE. ... On the day I die, I want to have had dessert!”